Showing posts with label book list. Show all posts
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Monday, January 14, 2019

“Which way you ought to go depends on where you want to get to...” ― Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland

Happy New Year!

Holy cow, how did 2019 get here so darn fast? I remember 2018 like it was just a few weeks ago!... (ha, bad joke!) I swear I say this every year. 

View of Mannheim from Ludwigshafen
Anyway, I've made a personal tradition of making a "Year in Review" post to  remember what happened each year. I'm sure when I'm older and my memory starts to fade, I'll appreciate that I did this for myself. 

Not that long ago, I heard something to the effect that podcasts are people talking to themselves, because no one was listening. In a lot of ways, I feel this is true of my blog as well, but I'm totally ok with that. 😜 I am not complaining. I don't advertise anything and on occasion, I will post the link up when I've written something, but heck, even I forget to look at it!

I won't lie and say that life always been amazing and wonderful, especially in this last year, but I CAN say that I feel gratitude for the ups and downs that made me grow and learn more about myself , for better or worse. I'm a perpetual work in progress, what can I say?



Here are some of the highlights of 2018:

Travel: 
1.  A two week sailing adventure on the Atlantic. Ok, so maybe it was more motoring through the ICW, but still... (To read more about it, you can go here). 
2.  Mammoth for snowboarding in brand new gear! (Translation: I'm obligated to continue with that sport for at least another 5 to 10 years, my body willing!) 
3.  Road trip to the Bay area to see old friends, meet new additions to the family, see the coast and a castle
4.  Crossed the pond to explore some of Europe (post will be coming soon-ish) 

Literary journey:
After grad school, I've made a point to read more for enjoyment. It was something I had always done as a kid, and it's still very fulfilling, especially when the storytelling is as good as the story itself. I highly recommend those with a *; those with a + are worth a read as well imho.

Books read:
1.  The Lost City of Z: A Tale of Deadly Obsession in the Amazon - David Grann+
2.  The Ocean at the End of the Lane - Neil Gaiman
3.  The Color Purple - Alice Walker*
First mate aboard the SV Improvise
4.  A River in Darkness: One Man's Escape from North Korea - Masaji Ishiakawa, Risa Kobayashi, Martin Brown*
5.  Uglies - Scott Westerfield
6.  Pretties - Scott Westerfield
7.  Specials - Scott Westerfield
8.  Extras - Scott Westerfield
9.  Feast: True Love in and out of the Kitchen - Hannah Howard*
10. A Tale for the Time Being - Ruth Ozeki
11. Never Stop Walking: A Memoir of Finding Home Across the World - Christina Rickardsson, Tara F. Chace+
12. The Thinnest Air - Minka Kent
13. The Last Black Unicorn - Tiffany Haddish
14. The Library at Mount Char - Scott Hawkins+
15. Born a Crime: Stories From a South African Childhood - Trevor Noah*
16. China Rich Girlfriend - Kevin Kwan
17. Rich People Problems - Kevin Kwan
18. The Handmaid's Tale - Margaret Atwood+
19. The Princess Diarist - Carrie Fisher+
20. I Know Who I Am,  But What Are You? - Samantha Bee

As you can tell, I got into a few book series. They were mostly very fast reads, so it was easy to just keep going. Some were young adult series, some were not, but all were entertaining to some degree.

Jason Mraz
Concerts: 
Didn't get to many this year, but I had a blast at the ones I attended. Although I enjoy music, I've never been one to find anything outside of what's on the radio. It's nice to have people around me who can't stand pop and introduce me to other things non-mainstream. (e.g. #1 and #3, though I just saw #3 on SNL!!)

1. St. Vincent
2.  Jason Mraz
3. Courtney Barnett

Theatre: This was more entertaining that I thought it would be. :)
Spamalot

Kreativitee:
I restarted Hump Day Haikus in 2018. This time, I also included "photokus" and "paintingkus" to my "sketchku" repertoire. The first year I did this, back in 2015, I had a ton of ideas and my drawing skills improved. It was a great project, and one that I'll never forget.

I needed less pressure so that it would still be fun. And hopefully not redundant. In any case, to take a look at those, you can go here or here.

Radio shows/ podcasts:
Over the last year, I've discovered some things to listen to while I'm taking walks, hikes or going to the gym. Storytelling is as old as time and man, do these guys do it well! Here are some of my favorite:
1. This American Life
2. Serial
3. Lore
4. Modern Love
5. The Mortified Podcast
6. The Moth

The present:
As for 2019, I'm going to steal a phrase that my good friend often uses... 

I'm "cautiously optimistic" that it will continue to bring with it great opportunities for growth and everything else that life throws at you.


Tuesday, August 7, 2018

2017 Year in Review (in August no less!)

Oh the blog neglect! I'm sure some people would just advise that I wait until next year and just roll it into one post. I thought about it, but nah...

My "annual" reflection post allows me to get back to this blog and also reminds me of how I don't keep up with it much. I've been "focusing" on the creative blog and started up #humpdayhaikus again, well frankly, because I have the time!

2017 had its ups and downs, but, I'll focus on and appreciate the good because, well, it just feels better. :)

As per my usual since returning from the east coast in 2011, I spent many an afternoon strolling along local beaches and capturing more sunsets in a year that most people see in a decade. This is my version of stopping to smell the roses since my sense of smell is pretty non-existent.  The locale changed from Newport Beach to Torrey Pines State Beach because, at long last, I finally made my way back down to San Diego. FINALLY! and couldn't be happier to be here.

My brother got me an annual pass to Disneyland for Christmas 2016 and boy did I take advantage of that, even though I moved down to SD in April. Life can't be all that bad if you are hanging out with good company at the" Happiest Place on Earth", right?

The great thing was, my brother and several friends also had/have a pass so I had several opportunities to relive my childhood and also have experiences with my friend's kids. I LOVE that! It reminds me of when I used to go with my cousins when we were all much younger and ticket prices were maybe around $20 pp. Those were the days!

With Nina and Brysen on the Mader ride at DCA
The cool thing about going with a toddler is going back to the kiddy rides. I stopped going to them if I didn't have kids with me, so they were forgotten. In fact, I went on the Peter Pan ride for the first time ever and it was pretty awesome! The Pooh ride was a bit psychedelic too. Snow White is a bit "scarier" than I would have anticipated for being a kid's ride, but I'm digressing...

EPIC RAIN

There was some epic rain in the beginning of the 2017 year. This prompted trips to Mammoth for snowboarding and adventures to local (and not so local) parks to see the insane wildflower growth.

Canyon Park
I haven't been snowboarding in about 6 years or so. I went once when I was living on the East coast and was excited to get back to powder. It just so happens that the weekend that we went (3rd week of January) was when there was a huge storm. There was already a ton of snow so that we sank as soon as we got off the lifts. All the black diamond slopes turned to blue black, all the blue black turned to blue, etc. It was like landing on a pillow, albeit a cold one.

On the 2nd day, it was dumping and the winds were so strong that most of the lifts were closed. Only one side was open and when we got there, we saw that everyone else was there too. Took almost an hour to get to the front and one set of friends got stuck on the lift for about 30 min. We took the hint and once we got everyone back together again, we called it a day. We were supposed to stay another night, but the forecast showed that the conditions would only worsen and that we might be stuck on the mountain for a full day just sitting inside the cabin. We also took that hint and headed back home.
Fairview Park

Elsewhere in the state, the plentiful rain allowed flowers (and weeds) to grow like something else! In my old local park, the wildflowers were easily clearing 6 to 7 feet! It was almost like a corn maze, but with pretty yellow flowers.

In some of these parks, the area was usually just dirt. Mountain bikes would race across the hills, blowing up dust and dirt in their wake. But the rains of early 2017 transformed the landscape.

Speaking of wild flowers, my good friend and I decided to wake up early on a Saturday to make our way out to Anza Borrego. Even Travel & Leisure had to comment on the desert blooms and for good reason. In different areas of the desert, flowers blanketed the horizon in seas of yellow and purple. I'm glad we left early because even in March, the weather was pretty darn hot out there. I practiced some of my DSLR skills and posted some of the unedited pictures here.

Anza Borrego
ROAD TRIP

Although I've moved across the US a few times in my life, I took my first cross country road trip from Southern California to Florida with my brother and his girlfriend. I got to see some family and sites along the way, which was pretty exciting.

As we drove through Texas, we kept seeing billboards for Buc-ee's. We came across so many of them that curiosity got the best of us and we looked it up. They boasted about their aware winning 83 bathroom thrones and something like 200 soda fountains. My brother's girlfriend kept seeing "Beaver Nuts" but that's another story.

We decided to stop and boy were we glad we did! They weren't kidding about how clean their bathrooms are. Though there may not have been 83 at this particular location, there was definitely no wait and it was immaculate. I think we counted a good 30 soda/ slurpee fountains, but we also saw that the store had a large food section of both prepared and packaged foods and a merchandise section for pretty much everything. Now I don't want to become a blogging advertisement, but it was a lot of fun! Buc-ee the Beaver merch was fun to look through as well. Ranging from stuffed animals to potholders to pajamas to towels, you could find that bucktoothed beaver on a great variety of things.

Bu-cee's assortment of items
We saw a lot of kitschy items, particularly if you are a fan of the country decor. They were fun.

We decided to get some t-shirts to commemorate the experience because, shoot, we got some beaver fever and were so tickled by this place, we just HAD to! I'm sure the locals thought we were ridiculous and while I may not have actually SEEN them laughing at/with us, I have no doubts they were as we posed in front of the store with our newly purchased Bu-cee's apparel with Bu-cee the Beaver himself.
obligatory shot with Bu-cee
For full disclosure, my brother and his girlfriend have returned to Texas in 2018 and have assured me that they will be revisiting this amazing place and that I shouldn't be too surprised if they bring back some Beaver goodness.

I can't wait!

With my eldest uncle on my dad's side
I have to admit, I was also pretty excited to see family as well. Some of them I haven't seen in a few decades. DECADES (plural!!)!! My cousins hadn't seen us in so long, they couldn't remember if we were cousins or if they were our aunts/uncles. I can't blame them. My brother and I are right in the middle (age wise) of the generations and it was pretty amazing to see the people my 2nd cousins have become, especially since I only had a picture of when two of them were babies in my collection of old photos.

some of my cousins
Considering there was a hurricane several months before, I was surprised not to see much damage there. They live in the Houston area, which was hit pretty hard.

My family told us what the neighborhood looked like during that time, sharing stories of others that struggled and some that didn't make it home. How they had to gut a lot of the walls downstairs and replace whole rooms because of the water damage. I'm grateful that they all survived it and have been steadily rebuilding.

I'm happy that my brother will be seeing them again while he's out there. We had a really nice time catching up with them and the extended family. I hope that I'll be able to make it out there to see them again soon as well. I have a lot of fond memories of them when I was young and it's always a good time to make new memories, if possible.

Next stop: NOLA. None of us had been there before and this will sound silly, but it felt super familiar because of Disneyland's New Orleans Square. The hurricane damage here didn't look too bad either, but I didn't really have much to compare it to. Only a few roads looked a bit messed up, but from what I could tell, businesses were open and even for November it was busy. No where near busy what it could be like during Mardis Gras, no doubt.

It was fun to look up different places to eat and enjoy Cafe Du Monde as it was meant to be. One thing I will say is that if you don't eat the beignets when they are fresh might as well not eat them. We brought some back with us and it doesn't hold up well once they are room temp. Fresh is where it's at!

Our main reason for taking the road trip was to help my brother's girlfriend move stuff from CA to FL for her uncle. Boy were we happy to unload the car and have some leg room once we did that!

It was great to meet her family who greeted us very warmly. My brother has been out there many times before, so he knew everyone. We had some good times, taking her niece and nephew to Miami though only the 3 of us ventured up to Orlando to go to Walt Disney World and Universal. Disney is always busy. We got on the People Mover to escape some heat. We played some games while waiting for Space Mountain (they should TOTALLY implement that at Disneyland; made the wait go by so fast!), and we went on the Snow White ride twice because it was something we didn't have at home and was so much fun!!
Minions!

Seems like there is no "down season" for Disney, but that definitely wasn't the case for Universal Studios. The longest we had to wait for a ride was 30 minutes. We were able to go on the Harry Potter and the Escape from Gringotts ride several times in a row with at most a 10 min wait in between. That ride was AMAZING!!! Diagon Alley was also AMAZING! Considering they are a movie studio, I would have been a bit disappointed if I didn't feel like I was fully immersed in the wizarding world and I'm so glad they made it happen!

When I'm in amusement parks, I feel like a kid again. I was "this" close to buying a robe, but thank goodness it was HOT out and it got me thinking "when would I wear this again?", which in turn, helped me talk myself out of purchasing anything. Not even a single minion!... even though THAT was really tempting! (Phew!) Didn't help at Bu-cee's though!

Overall, there was a lot of GREAT in 2017 and not much bad. I'm lucky indeed!

Book List
1.* Post Office - Charles Bukowski
2. We're All Damaged - Matthew Norman
3. The Caller - Karin Fossum
4. Ready Player One - Ernest Cline
5. *Another Brooklyn - Jacqueline Woodson
6. Hard Boiled Wonderland and the End of the World - Haruki Murakami
7. I am Watching You - Teresa Driscol
8. The Soul of an Octopus: A Surprising Exploration into the Wonder of Consciousness - Sy Montgomery

* Virtual/Lazy Book Club picks

Concerts:
1. Garbage/Blondie
2. Ed Sheeran
3. U2
4. Bleachers
5. Little Steven and the Disciples of Soul
6. High Rolling Loners

Monday, February 6, 2017

"Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end." - Seneca






Another year has just flown by. It's true what they say, the older you get the fast time flies. What up with that?!

And what a year 2016 was.

Most of you who are around my age understand the real impact of all the celebrities that were lost because they were who we grew up with, who helped mark important childhood milestones. Also, the election... I'm not going to elaborate on that just because I just don't have the energy.

So on to more positive things.

I became an aunt! One of my best friend's Nina, and my cousin had baby boys and they are both as cute as can be! I still remember meeting Nina over 20 years ago in our freshman year of college and when my cousin was in diapers!


Last year was filled with several domestic vacations. Tahoe for snowboarding, San Francisco, Boston, Manhattan, Philadelphia, Denver, Seattle, Santa Barbara... I was all over the country this year and I got to catch up with a lot of people that I haven't seen in quite some time. I'm grateful that the friendships remain strong, even if we are no longer living in the same area.

Manhattan
I ran my first 10K and was able to run the whole way through, so yay! for crossing one thing off my bucket list! It doesn't matter that I am around the middle of the pack, and that this year, I'll have to click a different box for age (egads!), this is the longest distance I've ever run and am happy about that.

I haven't been snowboarding in several years. Basically since 2009 and it was the first time I went to Tahoe. What a beautiful place! Before this year, I had only been snowboarding is Mammoth, so it was exciting to try another location, even though I'm super rusty!
Tahoe


I went to a conference and visited Philadelphia for the first time. There was an amazing Malaysian place there that was so good, that we went there twice in 2 days! We tried a few Philly cheesesteaks too, and enjoyed roaming around the city. My friend and I walked over 10 miles in the first day while we waited to check into our hotel. My fitbit counted over 30K steps!

I got to spend the 4th of July weekend in Manhattan. It was rainy but I got to try Shake Shack for the first time. Although it was good, I can't say I remember anything more than it being an expensive tasty burger. I still have to say that American Ale in Santa Barbara is still my favorite burger place. Speaking of which, I went back in October and it was as good as I remember... (tear...).

I took about 3 weeks off of work in December and went to Boston and Seattle. I'm glad that I used to live in cold because I layered and was totally prepared. They are such lovely cities and I'm glad that I got to visit some family and really good friends. So far I've been able to make an annual trip to Boston and I hope that I can keep doing that!

City of Brotherly Love
One of the nice things about being done with school is that I can read for leisure. A few friends and I have a "lazy book club" where we read 3 to 4 books a year and video chat to catch up and talk about the book.

Here's my short list of books for 2016:
  1. All the Light We Cannot See - Anthony Doerr
  2. Rivers of London - Ben Aaronovitch
  3. Battle Royale - Koushun Takami
  4. In Cold Blood - Truman Capote
  5. Hogwarts Houses Divided - Inverarity
  6. The Girl with all the Gifts - M. R. Carey
  7. The Girl on the Train - Paula Hawkins
I read City of Thieves again, which was on my list in 2012, I think. I forgot what the book was about but remembered pretty quickly. David Benioff is the author and when I saw that he was involved with Game of Thrones, I knew that they would make an amazing show. I have seen each season 4 times... at least. I know, crazy. But it's amazing what you notice when you watch it again. I always see something that I didn't see before.

2017 will be a good year. I am going to be moving to San Diego relatively soon. Not soon enough but hopefully within a month or so!! I left in July 2009 and it's taken almost 8 full years to get back. But it will be good to be home.

Monday, February 29, 2016

"Sometimes you gotta create what you want to be a part of." - Geri Weitzman

So I've neglected this blog for a while. My bad!

I kinda feel like I don't want to post something unless there is something behind it. But then I realized something... that's too much pressure!

I have 4 drafts that I never finished that are just sitting there. Maybe I will post a few of those this year, maybe not. I guess we'll see.

In the meantime, this will be my "year in review" post, even though it's a bit late. (oops!)
Eldurairaj Union 

So 2015... yeah... as far as work goes, it is another one of those epic years of change. This year will not be any different but it's too early to digress on that topic.

As far as personal growth, it was another big one. I decided to really focus on my creative side. THAT blog got lots of love last year. I embarked on a year long #HumpDayHaiku journey that I'm proud to say I completed. And even though the writing of the haikus didn't improve my writing ability (though I'm beyond an expert of counting syllables on my fingers), the drawings that went with them definitely improved. I started out drawing stick figur-ish robots to many other things. I have to say, I found it challenging to find 52 really good themes, and I accepted that not every haiku would be better than the last.

Here are the ones I liked the best, even though others may have disagreed:


Top Left: I was inspired by the pictures of Pluto and have always loved staring at the evening sky trying to find constellations or planets.

Top Right: One of my friends took a picture of a bunch of windmills. I thought it looked cool and there you go. :)

Bottom Left: Baby elephants! 'Nuff said!

Bottom Right: Ninjas, nunchucks and ninja stars; need I say more?


 Top Left: I saw a graphic T with a whale on it and loved it. Whales are very calming, despite their massive size.

Top Right: Jase is big on lighthouses and he pulled me right along with him. I'm still looking for the one in OC. Hope it's not a myth!

Bottom Left: This is my girly side coming out. Unicorns and rainbows!

Bottom Right: This was inspired by an actual art exhibit where 1000 teddy bears were painted on canvases of all sizes. Philipp Jordan is the German artist's name. His paintings were much more vibrant than my drawing, but I still liked what I drew.

Top Left: The ocean was inspired by a drawing an instagrammer (whose profile was taken down) who actually drew a dress from a very similar pattern. I loved it and thought it would look amazing as water. This one may be my all-time favorite.

Top Right: What can I say? I love the rain. ;)

Bottom Left: I haven't been snowboarding in a long time, but it's one sport that I love. Especially when I learned how to connect my turns. (And got all the necessary padding that makes me look like I've gained 30 lbs. but shoot... at least I'm protected!)

Bottom Right: An instagrammer (anasteem) has so many amazing pictures of her daughter with heart shaped balloons. I thought it was beautiful and so I made an attempt to draw it.

Not bad, right? 12 of 52?

I also read a decent amount over the last year. The number of books may not seem like it but shoot, the number of pages show a slightly different story (3000+).

And in no particular order:
1. The Giver - Louis Lowry
2. The Martian - Andy Weir
3. Wind/Pinball: Two Novels - Haruki Murakami
4. Dance with Dragons (A Song of Fire and Ice, Book 5) - now I know you were waiting for this one if you have ever looked at my previous years' book lists!
5. Crazy Rich Asians - Kevin Kwan
6. Steve Jobs - Walter Isaacson


Dessert Cooking Class
I didn't go abroad but I got to see a bunch of friends. Visiting San Francisco for fun and to take pictures, Seattle to have a mini cousin reunion, DC for my good friends' wedding, Boston to see old grad school friends, local trips to SB and SD...How lucky am I to have so many people to visit? ... Very!

I am grateful to always realize when I have good people around me. It doesn't happen everywhere, and I do my best to appreciate and enjoy it as much as I can. After all, the only constant is change, right?

We'll see what this year brings!

Let go of what is gone; be grateful for what remains; look forward to what is coming...

NOTE: Written on March 2, 2020: Pre knowing just how big Covid was... I decided not to rewrite it because it was a simpler time then.  Holy ...